A person may love someone that Allah does not love. Then, love the people that Allah loves so that you will be together with them in the hereafter. Be careful not to be a victim of wrong love and a person who is overcome by his feelings. Do not regard the beauty of a face, which will disappear soon, as the only reason for love because outward beauty will disappear in a short time; since what makes you love disappears, your love may disappear too. That approach will soon make the family loveless.
However, if one attributes his love to nice qualities like belief, ethics, sincerity and loyalty, which will increase as one gets older, not to outward beauty, which will disappear, the future of the family will be guaranteed.
The parties who see that the reason for their love continues lifelong will maintain their family without weakening it until they die because the high ethics that originates from devoutness brings the wife and husband together in Paradise; it will enable them to be together in the eternal life after the world; thus, they make their love kind of eternal. Therefore, they are very careful and try not to disappoint and hurt their eternal friend here. Both of them will be together in Paradise after being cleaned from all kinds of material and spiritual dirt.
What is more, the wife and husband that they imagined will appear exactly; they will have the appearance of a Paradise youth and a Paradise houri that will make each other happy. They will meet in Paradise being freed from some views that overshadowed their love that existed in the world.
Thus, the wife of the man in the world will be a Paradise houri that he will admire fully and the husband will be a Paradise youth that she will admire fully; they will have the opportunity of enjoying their overshadowed happiness in the world without being overshadowed in Paradise, and in a better phase.
Therefore, the love in the world should not be attributed only to the temporary outward beauty. They should focus on the beauty of belief and ethics that will gain them the eternal friendship of life in Paradise, which will improve as they get older so that their family love will continue lifelong and will be transformed to eternal friendship of life. According to the opinion of some scholars, if a woman married two or more men in the world, she will marry her first husband if her other marriage s took place as a result of the death of her husband not as a result of divorce; according to the opinion of other scholars, she will marry her last husband.
However, she can also marry the one that she likes better. The sadness and longing in the world are not in question in Paradise. In other words, the longing and sadness remaining from the world will be eliminated there by reunion or there will be no traces from them; what is important is to enter Paradise. Therefore, it is necessary to compete in taqwa, that is, in obeying the commands and prohibitions of Allah, which is a prerequisite for entering Paradise.
Please mention the source for point d. I have been searching for anything that reaffirms point d but I could not find a single post in favor. There will be for them therein all that they wish and more besides in Our Presence.
Allah tests us through various methods, however, his reward is greater than his tests. Also, Allah has the knowledge of the unseen, which we as humans cannot understand. Imagine the time when Prophet Ibrahim was commanded to sacrifice his own beloved son, sounds barbaric? Did Prophet Ibrahim question Allah for reasons? He did as he was told, did he know that his son will be replaced by a ram? Of course not, but look at what he gained from that act, he gained the title of KhaleelUllah , which means friend of God!
When Allah blesses us with something we should be grateful, and if He chooses to take something from us, we should be patient. Prophet Muhammad has said,. Every day, people will get different and much more pleasure from the same blessings. Moreover, they will be bestowed different bounties and different favors each day. No doubt should be harbored at all about Allahu ta'ala's power. Humans try to compare what they do not know to what they know, but something unknown cannot be compared to something known.
It is declared in a hadith-i sharif : The world is like Paradise when compared to the womb and like a garbage dump when compared to Paradise. A hadith-i sharif says what means : In Paradise, there are blessings that are never heard and cannot even be imagined. In Paradise, the delights of marriage, like all delights, will increase every day, and it will continue in this manner forever. The fact that there will be marriage in Paradise is established by Qur'anic verses and Prophetic sayings.
When the blessings that will be granted to good people are described in the Qur'an al-karim, the following is said: Besides, We will wed them to houris having kohl-rimmed eyes [having beautiful eyes].
We have made them virgins, devoted to their spouses, and of equal age. They are like pure white eggs that have not seen the light of day. If her husband is a Believer with good morals, he will be her husband. If her husband is not a suitable person, Allahu ta'ala will wed her to a martyr in Paradise.
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